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Best friends and love cheating

What a strange and powerful feeling you can have when you’re dating your best friend’s lover !

You should try this, at least one time in your life. I know it sounds crazy to recommend such a thing (and maybe disgusting) , but those who have tried that can confirm what I am about to describe below.

From the very first moment, from the first flirts, down to a serious and intimate relationship you will notice that every feeling, every touch, every kiss or caress is 10 times more intensive than as usual. The fear, the secret, the thought of doing something bad and so prohibited, so non-ethical, so .. unfair maybe, all these things give you such a powerful and hard to resist sensation.

Between men there is always competition, between women there is always envy. This is what, in my opinion, gives this tremendous power to this feeling.

Another “black & sweet” thought can bring life in your mind if you will just try to imagine how devastating it could be for everybody to make public your secrete love with your best friend’s spouse (partner).

And you continue and you try to take advantage of every little moment to flirt or show affection with the cheater. By the way, who’s the cheater now ? I think both are cheaters and I think this is the toughest love-cheating relationship possible (besides a pervert, incestuous relationship).

It is so easy to do this when there is no marriage involved, but what happens when you risk to brake a married couple (not to mention if a child is involved). No matter how strong the feelings are or how much adrenaline they bring into your body, I still think this is a risk too high to take.

Oh, although this might might be a “cruel” subject, I have an outrageous feeling of nice memories :) . Maybe I feel a little bit guilty now - but I am so curios if anybody has ever written about it - I’ll look around and gather some links. I hope I’ll find some interesting stories.

At the office - loving or cheating ?

8 hours per day or even more…

Working hard, side by side, being in the same team, going through successes or failures, having lunch together, laughing and making jokes, bad-talking the boss - what all these things can create between a man and a woman ?

What happens when they start changing looks, glancing at each other or simply not being able to have a short brake without each other ?

Moreover, what happens if they accicentaly touch each other ?

How should I think about all this without suspecting myself that I am not getting into a love affair with my working colleague, that things will not evolve even more and finally end with a .. romantic evening or.. maybe in a very delicate and warm bad ?!

Oh God, and what if a marriage is involved ?

You spend half of the day, half of your life with one person that is not your husband or wife, but that you feel so attracted to: emotionally and sometime even physically (some say that there is always a physical attraction in the beginning).

And you spend only a few hours with your spouse, in the evening, when you are so tired over the hard working day. In my case, week-ends are sometimes ruined too - and that is because of some more work.

So, what can you do ?

  • Cheat your love one - sounds bad, but very tempting and sounds like a real air balloon for your routinely intimate life. Risks involved ? Getting caught and losing both or even worth getting involved in your affair
  • Leave your love one - that’s easy to say, but hard to do when you are involved in a long, long term relationship and you share so many things together with your life partner. But you might get into a new relationship that is so naturally build - the relationship with your colleague.

Is there any other solution ?

However, besides the fact that some companies strictly interdict love affairs between their employers, is this really a good option on long term ? I mean, seeing someone every single day - is this good or bad ? How good, how bad ?

Don’t we get at the same point after that magic attraction goes off ?
Or even worth, by working together with your love partner, you install faster that routine in your couple.

I am so curios to know if there is any successful couple that work together of if there is someone there who tried this and failed.

I look for that and get my answer.