Love Cheaters

Few days ago, my girlfriend asked me if I would cheat her with a very attractive woman, in the case I would have that opportunity. I did not know what to answer - it was a strange and powerful question.

If this will happen to me, I would not even think twice about it (at least I am honest with myself) - I am handsome man, I know I can have beautiful women if I want, so why not take advantage of God’s gifts for me - and, in addition, I have always liked to live my life. So, the honest answer to my girlfriend’s question would be “YES, of course I would not miss such an opportunity !” - But probably only a full would say something like that - isn’t it ?

On the other hand, I hate to lie to my baby. She is such a sweet and nice baby doll and I hate to hurt her. I can’t stand her crying, I can’t stand her look in her big, brown eyes, when she’s upset because of me.. Therefore I am trying to protect her as much as I can, but she… she is always looking for trouble. She is always asking me this kind of questions, she looks into my emails, my mobile phone, my past love letters, my messenger.. my all.. She seems to be looking for some.. evidence to condemn me, to cry in my face again. And this hurts me too.

So, I didn’t know what to say.. I tried to make a joke to get away with this - I said loud and clear :”Off course, I would never, ever… miss an opportunity to make love with another attractive woman! Moreover, I would invite you too, so that we can share the delicious body - what do you ?” - Result ? I just got slapped but she seemed to be happy with the answer - it was too crazy to be taken seriously so I could say .. I… just got away with it.

However, I am not always that clever or lucky - she is very clever too and she is returning me the “favors” - Can you believe she got me into the position of asking her the same stupid questions and sometimes I even look into her phone too !?!

And then I start the tough questions: who is this person ? who’s number is this? why did you get this message at this hour? and so on and so forth..

If this is love, with this kind of questions, than love is not that beautiful anymore..

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Some time ago, I was in a quite long trip across Europe, away from my country and town. I left home my girl, sad and alone, but I kept my feelings for her in my heart. And she did the same.

I was writing her every week, I was calling her every two days. We seem to go over this difficult period very well and with much hope.

In the mean time, I was keeping in contact with my friends too and especially with one of them who I believed I can trust the most - he was the so called “best friend”. We did a lot of crazy stuff together: we went out together with girls that were friends then we cheated them together and a lot of things like that. I always thought he will never betray me, cause I knew I wouldn’t do that to him neither.

But now, after some time since I got back home and took back my girl, I had the surprise to find out that my good friend here was so kind and tried to prove to my girlfriend that I have cheated her too. And in a way or another he succeeded. But I was lucky enough that my girlfriend was so in love with me and put this away - I was giving her too much passion, care, attention and love and that was exactly what she wanted - the past didn’t matter to her. My love for her was true and obvious.

But what I am wondering is why did he do that ? What did he try to get ? My girlfriend ? Was he envious on me and my relationship ? (my girl is a beautiful woman) And today, I do not know how to react towards him.

I don’t know if I should tell him that I know what he did (by the way, my girlfriend confessed to me what he did) . Although I have promissed my girlfriend that I won’t disclose to him the fact that she denounced him, I am still tempted to see his face, to confront him - I am so curios what he has to say in his defense.

However, my best friend is a great lier - I know him well. So, I’m sure he will not even admit the truth until I would tell him that I know everything right from the source - which is my baby.

My mom say that I should forgive and forget and see of my own life - it will make me happier. And I think she is right.

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