Love Cheaters

I wrote some time ago about cheating between best friends. This subject just came to my mind again because I had some very strong memories of a cheating wife flirting with me, right next to one of my good friends.

As a man, I felt good - it is always flattering when a women is so interested in you. But as friend, I felt terrible. I was wondering what should I do: should I denounce the cheater or should I keep it secret and take advantage of a very, very tempting affair.

Of course, as a good friend, probably the best thing to do would have been to simply warn my friend about his dangerous dating. But the situation was not that simple. She was not a dating, she was his .. wife. And in such case, could I risk to damage the marriage only by suggesting some “assumptive” flirts. I would have also risked to raise envy feelings to my friend or to destroy his trust in his wife and thus his entire relationship.

What is the best thing to do in such a situation ?

Probably I know, but on the other hand, I had the feeling that my friend is not very in love with his beautiful wife and his wife is not really in love with my old fellow there. More than that, the woman was looking pretty hot and she seemed to be so .. experienced and discrete about all theses things. Not to mention the incredible but pleasant feeling of fear of being uncovered doing such a horrible thing.

Again, what should I have done ? What would have been good for everybody ? What would have happened if I told him about his cheating wife - let’s say I would have seduced her and then denounced her: I think this way I would have destroyed their marriage immediately (and no adventure for me :P).

But what if I would have let things go.. and see what happen.. of course, be careful about it and keep it secret. Maybe have some secrete datings, making a little passionate love (because the passion was burning in our eyes, hers and mine) and keep our partners “away” of this .. “dangerous” love affair. Then I thought if nobody finds out, nobody will be hurt and everybody is .. quite happy : my friend can keep his “refreshed” wife (sorry, but that’s true), the wife remains with an unforgettable love affair and her fantasy fulfilled , my love partner will probably never find out about this and she will keep loving me as before or even more, because I will be “refreshed” as well.

Oh God, please forgive me if I am sinner - but I didn’t start this. I just did what was best for. And loving people is not bad, isn’t it ?

PS: I am not sure I will be able to do this, but I will try to put in words the wonderful moments we spent together…

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What a strange and powerful feeling you can have when you’re dating your best friend’s lover !

You should try this, at least one time in your life. I know it sounds crazy to recommend such a thing (and maybe disgusting) , but those who have tried that can confirm what I am about to describe below.

From the very first moment, from the first flirts, down to a serious and intimate relationship you will notice that every feeling, every touch, every kiss or caress is 10 times more intensive than as usual. The fear, the secret, the thought of doing something bad and so prohibited, so non-ethical, so .. unfair maybe, all these things give you such a powerful and hard to resist sensation.

Between men there is always competition, between women there is always envy. This is what, in my opinion, gives this tremendous power to this feeling.

Another “black & sweet” thought can bring life in your mind if you will just try to imagine how devastating it could be for everybody to make public your secrete love with your best friend’s spouse (partner).

And you continue and you try to take advantage of every little moment to flirt or show affection with the cheater. By the way, who’s the cheater now ? I think both are cheaters and I think this is the toughest love-cheating relationship possible (besides a pervert, incestuous relationship).

It is so easy to do this when there is no marriage involved, but what happens when you risk to brake a married couple (not to mention if a child is involved). No matter how strong the feelings are or how much adrenaline they bring into your body, I still think this is a risk too high to take.

Oh, although this might might be a “cruel” subject, I have an outrageous feeling of nice memories . Maybe I feel a little bit guilty now - but I am so curios if anybody has ever written about it - I’ll look around and gather some links. I hope I’ll find some interesting stories.

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