Love Cheaters

Some time ago, I was in a quite long trip across Europe, away from my country and town. I left home my girl, sad and alone, but I kept my feelings for her in my heart. And she did the same.

I was writing her every week, I was calling her every two days. We seem to go over this difficult period very well and with much hope.

In the mean time, I was keeping in contact with my friends too and especially with one of them who I believed I can trust the most - he was the so called “best friend”. We did a lot of crazy stuff together: we went out together with girls that were friends then we cheated them together and a lot of things like that. I always thought he will never betray me, cause I knew I wouldn’t do that to him neither.

But now, after some time since I got back home and took back my girl, I had the surprise to find out that my good friend here was so kind and tried to prove to my girlfriend that I have cheated her too. And in a way or another he succeeded. But I was lucky enough that my girlfriend was so in love with me and put this away - I was giving her too much passion, care, attention and love and that was exactly what she wanted - the past didn’t matter to her. My love for her was true and obvious.

But what I am wondering is why did he do that ? What did he try to get ? My girlfriend ? Was he envious on me and my relationship ? (my girl is a beautiful woman) And today, I do not know how to react towards him.

I don’t know if I should tell him that I know what he did (by the way, my girlfriend confessed to me what he did) . Although I have promissed my girlfriend that I won’t disclose to him the fact that she denounced him, I am still tempted to see his face, to confront him - I am so curios what he has to say in his defense.

However, my best friend is a great lier - I know him well. So, I’m sure he will not even admit the truth until I would tell him that I know everything right from the source - which is my baby.

My mom say that I should forgive and forget and see of my own life - it will make me happier. And I think she is right.

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Yesterday I had a powerful feeling that I am cheated.

And it was not nice. I was trying to get all those thoughts out of my mind while making fun of myself: “how can I think of that?!?” - I was saying.. But the thoughts were coming back, again and again.. with more power and a hurting feeling. An empty space seemed to open in my stomach and my head was burning.

When you have such feelings you are so tempted to do (or you start doing) crazy things, just to find out if your suspicions are true or not. You embarrass yourself, you humiliate yourself, you do things you would have swore you’ll never ever do.

So, me too, I did a stupid, but maybe in the end, efficient thing - I followed her to see if what she had said was true (she said she will go out with her girl friends only, .. by taxi) . And yes, she was getting out with her girl friends, but not by taxi (some guy pick her up) and not only with girls..

Actually I didn’t get any obvious proof of love cheating, but the feeling was there, so strong, so intense.. I am surprised that I was able to fall asleep after that..

The next day, I tried to see if she lies to me.. I asked her about the taxi and she.. lied, saying that she used a taxi to get to the club. I suggested that I know she’s lying and she said that she did that for my own protection.. Ha, ha - that was a good one.. I have probably used that a couple of times too, with some of my ex non important girlfriends.

It’s like a “cheating pattern” that all love cheaters follow and that I can easily recognize (I cheated in love too). But I still don’t (or don’t want to) believe she is actually cheating on me. And I don’t want to become a jealous paranoiac guy neither. But maybe this is part of that cheating pattern behavior too. I should know, shouldn’t I ?

I don’t know - the fact is that it’s so strange and unfamiliar to me to have this feeling of being cheated in love. I felt it once or twice in my life and after you have it once, you will not forget it.

I just hope I’ll clarify the situation within the following days (like any other cheated guy :)  - patterns again).

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