At the office - loving or cheating ?
8 hours per day or even more…
Working hard, side by side, being in the same team, going through successes or failures, having lunch together, laughing and making jokes, bad-talking the boss - what all these things can create between a man and a woman ?
What happens when they start changing looks, glancing at each other or simply not being able to have a short brake without each other ?
Moreover, what happens if they accicentaly touch each other ?
How should I think about all this without suspecting myself that I am not getting into a love affair with my working colleague, that things will not evolve even more and finally end with a .. romantic evening or.. maybe in a very delicate and warm bad ?!
Oh God, and what if a marriage is involved ?
You spend half of the day, half of your life with one person that is not your husband or wife, but that you feel so attracted to: emotionally and sometime even physically (some say that there is always a physical attraction in the beginning).
And you spend only a few hours with your spouse, in the evening, when you are so tired over the hard working day. In my case, week-ends are sometimes ruined too - and that is because of some more work.
So, what can you do ?
- Cheat your love one - sounds bad, but very tempting and sounds like a real air balloon for your routinely intimate life. Risks involved ? Getting caught and losing both or even worth getting involved in your affair
- Leave your love one - that’s easy to say, but hard to do when you are involved in a long, long term relationship and you share so many things together with your life partner. But you might get into a new relationship that is so naturally build - the relationship with your colleague.
Is there any other solution ?
However, besides the fact that some companies strictly interdict love affairs between their employers, is this really a good option on long term ? I mean, seeing someone every single day - is this good or bad ? How good, how bad ?
Don’t we get at the same point after that magic attraction goes off ?
Or even worth, by working together with your love partner, you install faster that routine in your couple.
I am so curios to know if there is any successful couple that work together of if there is someone there who tried this and failed.
I look for that and get my answer.
