Entries Tagged as 'Cheating in love - the analysis'

Back in the cheating game

2 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend.

Huuuh, that was a relief. For someone like me, being involved in a such a long relationship was one of the most terrible punishments I have ever had to endure. Now that I am free I can enjoy once again the sweet cheating life that I had before.

And so I did.

Just couple of days after I broke up, I went to some clubs in the down town and guess what.. 2 beautiful ladies have entered suddenly in my new, free cheating life. Ohh God, that was good..

I met one in a bar, the other in a club. At the first moment, my “long term relationship” habits almost made think about choosing only one of them and continue.. but my “lion hunting” instinct awaken and told me to continue with both..

And so I did…

First lady [from the bar] was also coming out from a long term relationship. And I had to endure a lot of talking about that. But as a gentlemen that I am and following my “very clear objectives”, I listened to everything she said, showing her good understanding and offering her the needed consolation. :D

Then I went to the club - my dancing skills + my innocent baby face did the job once again, like in the old times. In less than 20 minutes I picked her up - no talking, just dancing.. I felt like I was back in the game again :)

Two days later, my bed met some new.. fresh, blood  - uuuhh, I know that sounds nasty, but I cannot stop my self from seeing this hunting/cheating game as a vampire. And I love the feeling..

Any men who has ever done that knows what I am talking about..

Cheating as a sex toy

In one of my previous posts I was mentioning about cheating for revenge.

Now I have better feelings about this - I was thinking about cheating as a sex toy, as a fantasy. 

The dream of any cheater is to be treated as a sex toy. I think nobody cheats in order to fall in love with someone else, but to have sex, to excape their routined love life, to acomplish a fantasy.. or..

And sex toys are good: you play with them when you want, you do with them what you want, they’re discrete (never talk about it to anybody), they’re… safe ! Isn’t that great  ?!!

I think this is what (at least) a man is expecting from his cheating partner. He wants to treat his cheating partner as sex toy and he wants to be treated as a sex toy. If no committments are involved the better it is. Not to mention the sex games you can have. Some men consider that they should not do “things” with their wives, with the mothers of their children. So they think they can afford anything they ever desired for with another woman - their cheating partner.

I’m not sure if it’s the same from the woman standpoint. I know there are women that treat men as sex toys as well, but these are rare cases, nimphomanes maybe, actresses from adult movies. Usual women are not like that. When they cheat they want involvement from their cheating partner, they want respect and they want to do it.. as discrete as possible. Men are talking loud about their cheating adventures to their friends. Women are carefull about who they share with their naughty escapades, especially if she is a .. married woman.

However, I think that we men are treating or like to treat our cheating partners like sex toys more than women.