Love Cheaters

I have always been wondering why cheaters cheat ? Do they do it for fun, just like a game ? Do they do it because they have this urge to prove themselves still capable of being attractive..What does a cheater feels when he/she is cheated by his/her partner ?One of the first answers that comes to my mind is that they will feel the need of revenge.. or maybe they will feel punished ?I don’t know..But I believe this must be one of the few ways a cheater would give up cheating in love.. only when he will feel it on his own skin.I believe punishment works much better than motivation for cheaters. And I think at least for a while, the cheater will stop cheating.Or maybe not.. maybe this will only confirm his/her beliefs that cheating is right..Maybe !

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In one of my previous posts I was mentioning about cheating for revenge.

Now I have better feelings about this - I was thinking about cheating as a sex toy, as a fantasy. 

The dream of any cheater is to be treated as a sex toy. I think nobody cheats in order to fall in love with someone else, but to have sex, to excape their routined love life, to acomplish a fantasy.. or..

And sex toys are good: you play with them when you want, you do with them what you want, they’re discrete (never talk about it to anybody), they’re… safe ! Isn’t that great  ?!!

I think this is what (at least) a man is expecting from his cheating partner. He wants to treat his cheating partner as sex toy and he wants to be treated as a sex toy. If no committments are involved the better it is. Not to mention the sex games you can have. Some men consider that they should not do “things” with their wives, with the mothers of their children. So they think they can afford anything they ever desired for with another woman - their cheating partner.

I’m not sure if it’s the same from the woman standpoint. I know there are women that treat men as sex toys as well, but these are rare cases, nimphomanes maybe, actresses from adult movies. Usual women are not like that. When they cheat they want involvement from their cheating partner, they want respect and they want to do it.. as discrete as possible. Men are talking loud about their cheating adventures to their friends. Women are carefull about who they share with their naughty escapades, especially if she is a .. married woman.

However, I think that we men are treating or like to treat our cheating partners like sex toys more than women.

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