Cheaters do it for fun ?
I have always been wondering why cheaters cheat ? Do they do it for fun, just like a game ? Do they do it because they have this urge to prove themselves still capable of being attractive..What does a cheater feels when he/she is cheated by his/her partner ?One of the first answers that comes to my mind is that they will feel the need of revenge.. or maybe they will feel punished ?I don’t know..But I believe this must be one of the few ways a cheater would give up cheating in love.. only when he will feel it on his own skin.I believe punishment works much better than motivation for cheaters. And I think at least for a while, the cheater will stop cheating.Or maybe not.. maybe this will only confirm his/her beliefs that cheating is right..Maybe !
Most married men use free dating sites like plentyoffish to prowl for affairs. A lot of them post photos of themselves and put their status as “single” if they feel their spouses dont check on a computer or have enough suspicions. I met a rotten german player named andy12345a who lied about his intentions and used charm to try and gain my trust. He blocked his phone number from showing when he called, never invited me to his home or tell me his address, even after months of knowing him and meeting him. He used his work as a excuse for not being able to go out on a date but would ask to come over to my place and all the red flag behaviour he showed was what a married or involved man would show to me. He also cheated on me with many other women on that site. These men will never be faithful to any one person. If they cheat on a spouse they will cheat on a mistress too.
Love Cheaters should be PUNISHED heavily. I need some ideas to make my lover realize what cheating is.
Dear Viji,
I agree with you that cheaters should be punished, but what about you ?
Have you ever cheated?
Even with your thoughts..
Maybe this is the best way to punish your lover - show him/her how it feels when you get cheated.