Love Cheaters

I wrote some time ago about cheating between best friends. This subject just came to my mind again because I had some very strong memories of a cheating wife flirting with me, right next to one of my good friends.

As a man, I felt good - it is always flattering when a women is so interested in you. But as friend, I felt terrible. I was wondering what should I do: should I denounce the cheater or should I keep it secret and take advantage of a very, very tempting affair.

Of course, as a good friend, probably the best thing to do would have been to simply warn my friend about his dangerous dating. But the situation was not that simple. She was not a dating, she was his .. wife. And in such case, could I risk to damage the marriage only by suggesting some “assumptive” flirts. I would have also risked to raise envy feelings to my friend or to destroy his trust in his wife and thus his entire relationship.

What is the best thing to do in such a situation ?

Probably I know, but on the other hand, I had the feeling that my friend is not very in love with his beautiful wife and his wife is not really in love with my old fellow there. More than that, the woman was looking pretty hot and she seemed to be so .. experienced and discrete about all theses things. Not to mention the incredible but pleasant feeling of fear of being uncovered doing such a horrible thing.

Again, what should I have done ? What would have been good for everybody ? What would have happened if I told him about his cheating wife - let’s say I would have seduced her and then denounced her: I think this way I would have destroyed their marriage immediately (and no adventure for me :P).

But what if I would have let things go.. and see what happen.. of course, be careful about it and keep it secret. Maybe have some secrete datings, making a little passionate love (because the passion was burning in our eyes, hers and mine) and keep our partners “away” of this .. “dangerous” love affair. Then I thought if nobody finds out, nobody will be hurt and everybody is .. quite happy : my friend can keep his “refreshed” wife (sorry, but that’s true), the wife remains with an unforgettable love affair and her fantasy fulfilled , my love partner will probably never find out about this and she will keep loving me as before or even more, because I will be “refreshed” as well.

Oh God, please forgive me if I am sinner - but I didn’t start this. I just did what was best for. And loving people is not bad, isn’t it ?

PS: I am not sure I will be able to do this, but I will try to put in words the wonderful moments we spent together…

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