I moved to the door thinking if I should ring the bell or just enter there and offer my wife a nice surprise (I was getting back from my business trips earlier and I was bringing her some very nice and sexy gifts). I decided to enter without knocking and why not, surprise her with a kiss and hold her from behind.In the house, all lights were shut down, which I found quite unusual, knowing the my wife is not very careful with saving energy. And she was definitely home, as I quickly noticed her phone and keys from the car left on living table. So, I thought she might be in the bathroom and so I continued my search there..

I climbed the stairs slowly and I forwarded to the bathroom on the right. Indeed, there was a light there and a lot of steam. The door was partially open and I could see through the glass that there was nobody there. That was really strange.. My heart started to beat faster. I’ve got concerned about her: maybe something terrible has happened to her.. Where is she ?!

I turned and looked at our bedroom door. It was shut and but I thought I hear something from there. I went next to the door and stick my ear to the cold wood of the door. Then I heard my wife’s sighing slowly.. Then I felt a rush of blood to my head and my heart beating like crazy. My eyes were looking desperately for … something.. some clue, some idea.. something to give me a resoning for what was happening.

Of course, my first thought was that here I go, I am so lucky to catch my wife cheating on me.What should I do ? Just burst in and .. and… react somehow ? What should I do with the guy there ? Beat him ? Hit her ? But no ! Why should I react aggressively - that’s not me .. that’s not how I am..

Maybe I should just go to some hotel for tonight and come back tomorrow and see how she behaves..No, again no.. that is so coward..So I will enter.. I pushed the door slowly..  I managed to slip my head inside and.. SHOCK !!

Huuuh, that was a relief. For someone like me, being involved in a such a long relationship was one of the most terrible punishments I have ever had to endure. Now that I am free I can enjoy once again the sweet cheating life that I had before.

And so I did.

Just couple of days after I broke up, I went to some clubs in the down town and guess what.. 2 beautiful ladies have entered suddenly in my new, free cheating life. Ohh God, that was good..

I met one in a bar, the other in a club. At the first moment, my “long term relationship” habits almost made think about choosing only one of them and continue.. but my “lion hunting” instinct awaken and told me to continue with both..

And so I did…

First lady [from the bar] was also coming out from a long term relationship. And I had to endure a lot of talking about that. But as a gentlemen that I am and following my “very clear objectives”, I listened to everything she said, showing her good understanding and offering her the needed consolation.

Then I went to the club - my dancing skills + my innocent baby face did the job once again, like in the old times. In less than 20 minutes I picked her up - no talking, just dancing.. I felt like I was back in the game again

Two days later, my bed met some new.. fresh, blood  - uuuhh, I know that sounds nasty, but I cannot stop my self from seeing this hunting/cheating game as a vampire. And I love the feeling..

Any men who has ever done that knows what I am talking about..

Now I have better feelings about this - I was thinking about cheating as a sex toy, as a fantasy. 

The dream of any cheater is to be treated as a sex toy. I think nobody cheats in order to fall in love with someone else, but to have sex, to excape their routined love life, to acomplish a fantasy.. or..

And sex toys are good: you play with them when you want, you do with them what you want, they’re discrete (never talk about it to anybody), they’re… safe ! Isn’t that great  ?!!

I think this is what (at least) a man is expecting from his cheating partner. He wants to treat his cheating partner as sex toy and he wants to be treated as a sex toy. If no committments are involved the better it is. Not to mention the sex games you can have. Some men consider that they should not do “things” with their wives, with the mothers of their children. So they think they can afford anything they ever desired for with another woman - their cheating partner.

I’m not sure if it’s the same from the woman standpoint. I know there are women that treat men as sex toys as well, but these are rare cases, nimphomanes maybe, actresses from adult movies. Usual women are not like that. When they cheat they want involvement from their cheating partner, they want respect and they want to do it.. as discrete as possible. Men are talking loud about their cheating adventures to their friends. Women are carefull about who they share with their naughty escapades, especially if she is a .. married woman.

However, I think that we men are treating or like to treat our cheating partners like sex toys more than women.

And I did have chills in my stomach.

Oh yeah, I see myself as a real hunter; so this was that kind of opportunity that a “real hunter” would never miss. So, I slowly started the hunt and it seemed to work fine. She was not really acting like being committed in any kind of relationship, not to mention that she was not wearing any ring. I was happy to notice that and that encouraged me to move forward with my teasing. little chat and flirting.

Things went pretty well all day and I was starting to think about what’s next. I got her name and messenger ID, so that was just enough for me to find more about her on the Internet. So, I’ve got back home, jumped in my bad, grabbed my laptop and started to look for her over the web.

After some browsing, I found her on a social networking site. Nothing wrong about that, I guess most of the young people have nowadays an account in sites like myspace.com. She was not a really active user. She looked more like a nice, decent woman just playing around the Internet: she had some connections, some friends, a brother and a sister and.. surprise !!.. she was also connected with one guy having exactly the same LAST name with hers.

He was too young to be her father, definetly it was not her brother (I have had already found out her brother’s age), so, it really looked like her husband to me.

I was so happy that day because I had the feeling she was a ray of light in my life, but after finding this, the sky felt down on me. All my actions in that day looked stupid and childish. I astounded had to recognize that she was the cheater here. I was a fool to believe that I was being the hunter - actually, I was being only the victim of some beautiful woman that was probably only playing with me, while getting more confident about her still “active” seduction power.

I imagined all the fun she must have had with me all day - I had an terrible urge to get revenge on her somehow, immediately.

But still… why wasn’t she wearing a ring ?

And, the big question: What a “real hunter” would do in such situation ?

Some of these articles are really good and seem to be helpful for the desperate people seeking for advice. However, a lot of them are also seeding panic in their hearts and mind. Generally, the cheated ones (if there is a cheating case) become paranoiac about almost everything their partners do or say.

For example, one of the top symptoms is related to the mobile phone usage - the cheater is strangely answering some phone calls; or, the cheater is not even answering some calls, or messages are received at an “unusual” time, generally at night or late in the evening. Being a cheater once, I can admit these were things that happened to me too and I was doing a pretty good job on hiding them from my lover.

However,  there were a lot of moments when I behaved pretty much like a cheater (see the behavior above) without being a cheater. At that time, I was doing that on purpose, just to raise interest of my partner, to make her jealous or to spread some mystery around me. And this is what I call a “false positive”.

The bad thing with a false positive is when you are in the victim’s position - it makes you look week if you react to such “false positives”. It can destroy your relationship, it can affect trust and love you have from your partner.

Some of the usual cheating signs can really be “false positives”.

For example:

• he is coming back from work quite late - he is not necessarily seeing someone else; he is simply working harder;
• she receives messages from her boss at late hours in the evening - her boss might have really forgotten to communicate some urgent task for the next day; it does not necessarily mean that she is dating the boss

Of course, on the other hand, if these are real signs of cheating and you do nothing about it (check this at least once), you are in danger to become ridiculosly stupid.

So, I’m not saying that these signs are not real, but they should not distroy your life. A soon as you suspect someone of cheating you, you will start having the feeling that everything that person does is somehow hidden from you or related to someone else that you would really like to.. “meet”

It happens to me know some people suffering of being cheated by their partners. Even though they suspect things, they still don’t have any proof - that would help a lot to clarify their continous heart ake. They need to know - is their suspicion real or is it just their mind, hurting their souls.

So, I thought, how could I help with this ?
- I don’t have time to help them spying on their partners
- I don’t have money to spend with detectives to spy on their partners

But I have some knowledge about some PC spying software (keyloggers).
Everybody is using a PC these days, so, what about installing a software that can monitor everything that your partner is doing on the home computer when you’re not around.

SO, I’ll try to recommend a piece of software every week that could help you see who and what your partner is talking with and I’ll wait for some feedback.
I hope this will help.

First software that could help is: Ardamax Keylogger 2.9

CLICK HERE to learn more about how this software can help you spy your partner’s PC.

Why did I do this ?

First, because I remember how my bed was after a passionate love affair with a beautiful and incredibly sexy smelling woman. I have so clear in mind that night and it still gives me fever when I remember her. I think any man would feel heaven is closer when a woman like the one I met makes love with him: the way she was dressed, the way she was moving (dancing the dance of seduction) and, most of all, the way she was smelling. The very next morning, when she left for her job, I remained a few more hours in bed, sniffing the bed sheets, holding close the pillows, thinking of her… and the night we had..

Words are not enough to describe the feeling - it’s my head, in my stomach, in my…

I was so excited by that night of passion that I completely forgot about the fact that my “regular” lover (I was having a girlfriend for some time then) was about to visit my apartment later on that day. And I did not want to stop enjoying that smell of that stranger woman that came in my life for another night and left such a powerful trace in my body and soul. My girlfriend was smelling good as well, but not like she did. I was charmed..

Somehow, I only wake up only when my spouse arrived and, like any woman, she immediately felt that perfume of love that was still present in my bedroom. Nature or human nature is amazing.. her woman instinct was telling her that another one has been in her place, in my bad. She start sniffing the sheets, the towels, and the she was looking for something in my eyes - she knew somehow that I have cheated her last night but she did not have any evidence .. only that .. perfume..

Second reason was fear - a strong feeling of cheating has been through my mind these days.

Experience and fear made me smell the bed.. to find out.. if cheating in love is back in my life, but from a different perspective.

If this will happen to me, I would not even think twice about it (at least I am honest with myself) - I am handsome man, I know I can have beautiful women if I want, so why not take advantage of God’s gifts for me - and, in addition, I have always liked to live my life. So, the honest answer to my girlfriend’s question would be “YES, of course I would not miss such an opportunity !” - But probably only a full would say something like that - isn’t it ?

On the other hand, I hate to lie to my baby. She is such a sweet and nice baby doll and I hate to hurt her. I can’t stand her crying, I can’t stand her look in her big, brown eyes, when she’s upset because of me.. Therefore I am trying to protect her as much as I can, but she… she is always looking for trouble. She is always asking me this kind of questions, she looks into my emails, my mobile phone, my past love letters, my messenger.. my all.. She seems to be looking for some.. evidence to condemn me, to cry in my face again. And this hurts me too.

So, I didn’t know what to say.. I tried to make a joke to get away with this - I said loud and clear :”Off course, I would never, ever… miss an opportunity to make love with another attractive woman! Moreover, I would invite you too, so that we can share the delicious body - what do you ?” - Result ? I just got slapped but she seemed to be happy with the answer - it was too crazy to be taken seriously so I could say .. I… just got away with it.

However, I am not always that clever or lucky - she is very clever too and she is returning me the “favors” - Can you believe she got me into the position of asking her the same stupid questions and sometimes I even look into her phone too !?!

And then I start the tough questions: who is this person ? who’s number is this? why did you get this message at this hour? and so on and so forth..

If this is love, with this kind of questions, than love is not that beautiful anymore..