He loves me, he loves me not - the effects

He loves me/he loves me not ?

- this is the question that stays in her mind every single day .. and even more:

Thoughts like: “Where is he now?”, “Who is he with?”, “Is he thinking about me ?”, “What should I do to make him love me?” are in her mind every day and you can see it her eyes, in her gestures, in her acts.

She defends herself saying that is just a little jealousy came out of true love. But I am wondering if this is really… but I mean really true sign of love.

Moreover, what do you feel when every single day you hear questions like: “Where have you been and who was with you?” or “Why did she look at you that way?” or “When do you get back?” or “Call me from time to time, just to make sure you’re alright”.

Is this “love” or it becomes pressure ?

She starts calling and checking, looking into my mobile, into my inbox, into my files.. into my everything.. I feel like my life is under surveillance.

What is the effect of that?

Will she get my love for being so ..”carrying” with me ?

NOOUUU. No way - almost every single case I know has finally ended with a cheating story.

And there are 2 possibilities:

1. He gives up and tries to escape, looking for freedom, looking for that “virtual woman” he was accused of cheating with - if he is accused for nothing of having an affair, then let it be true at least.

2. She feels the need of punishing him for his behavior and indifference. “I’ll teach him a lesson!”, “I’ll make him suffer as he makes me suffer! I’ll cheat on him with the first occasion.”

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