Love Cheaters

In one of my previous posts I was mentioning about cheating for revenge.

Now I have better feelings about this - I was thinking about cheating as a sex toy, as a fantasy. 

The dream of any cheater is to be treated as a sex toy. I think nobody cheats in order to fall in love with someone else, but to have sex, to excape their routined love life, to acomplish a fantasy.. or..

And sex toys are good: you play with them when you want, you do with them what you want, they’re discrete (never talk about it to anybody), they’re… safe ! Isn’t that great  ?!!

I think this is what (at least) a man is expecting from his cheating partner. He wants to treat his cheating partner as sex toy and he wants to be treated as a sex toy. If no committments are involved the better it is. Not to mention the sex games you can have. Some men consider that they should not do “things” with their wives, with the mothers of their children. So they think they can afford anything they ever desired for with another woman - their cheating partner.

I’m not sure if it’s the same from the woman standpoint. I know there are women that treat men as sex toys as well, but these are rare cases, nimphomanes maybe, actresses from adult movies. Usual women are not like that. When they cheat they want involvement from their cheating partner, they want respect and they want to do it.. as discrete as possible. Men are talking loud about their cheating adventures to their friends. Women are carefull about who they share with their naughty escapades, especially if she is a .. married woman.

However, I think that we men are treating or like to treat our cheating partners like sex toys more than women.

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I met her and liked her from the day 1.
I was absolutely sure she likes me too from the way she was smiling at me, from the way she was slipping her hand on my hand with a very discreet and gentle gesture. And she was also beautiful and so attractive woman: delicate big brown eyes, sensual lips, curly black hair, athletic body… It is hard for a man not to fall for that.

And I did have chills in my stomach.

Oh yeah, I see myself as a real hunter; so this was that kind of opportunity that a “real hunter” would never miss. So, I slowly started the hunt and it seemed to work fine. She was not really acting like being committed in any kind of relationship, not to mention that she was not wearing any ring. I was happy to notice that and that encouraged me to move forward with my teasing. little chat and flirting.

Things went pretty well all day and I was starting to think about what’s next. I got her name and messenger ID, so that was just enough for me to find more about her on the Internet. So, I’ve got back home, jumped in my bad, grabbed my laptop and started to look for her over the web.

After some browsing, I found her on a social networking site. Nothing wrong about that, I guess most of the young people have nowadays an account in sites like myspace.com. She was not a really active user. She looked more like a nice, decent woman just playing around the Internet: she had some connections, some friends, a brother and a sister and.. surprise !!.. she was also connected with one guy having exactly the same LAST name with hers.

He was too young to be her father, definetly it was not her brother (I have had already found out her brother’s age), so, it really looked like her husband to me.

I was so happy that day because I had the feeling she was a ray of light in my life, but after finding this, the sky felt down on me. All my actions in that day looked stupid and childish. I astounded had to recognize that she was the cheater here. I was a fool to believe that I was being the hunter - actually, I was being only the victim of some beautiful woman that was probably only playing with me, while getting more confident about her still “active” seduction power.

I imagined all the fun she must have had with me all day - I had an terrible urge to get revenge on her somehow, immediately.

But still… why wasn’t she wearing a ring ?

And, the big question: What a “real hunter” would do in such situation ?

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